circle of acceptance

Don't waste your time trying to change anything. You don't even know who wants to change or what you would change or what the change would bring. You'd just be trading one opinion for another. Just draw a circle of acceptance around everything in your awareness. Just say YES. You don't have to do anything about anything. Just let everything be as it is, (it is anyway), at least until you see how you're doing it. If you think you can feel better by doing something else, or being something else, or being somewhere else, then feel better. Don't be confused that you really need to do something else, or be something else, or be somewhere else. Just be content to feel better. This can save a great deal of time, energy and money.